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Desires. Passions. Needs. Ideas

6 September 2011

After getting married, every single things must be considered. We’re probably happy to be with someone we love. We can share everything bother us, there is shoulder to cry on, there are other hands to wipe our tears, yeah everything seem so easy for us. Yet, it is not that easy. There always be gravel in our journey. Every problem in our life always come and go.

There is no enough word for humans. After getting merried is not always running well. We certainly possessed other expectations which are not easy to achive. Settle down and work drain my time. I always imagined to do many things, but in fact it was over in notes and fall asleep.

Obviously, the more a phase of life we ​​through, the more numerous and severe matter we face. Desires. Passions. Needs. Ideas. I barely talk to them, they just come and pass. I even stuck in the same place since a year ago. There are so many desires and expectations that only exist in my head without making me to depart and say, okay I will start it now.

I think, my recent life is not well ordered. Too much obsession, unfocused, does not take an action and they suddenly disappear replaced with another desire.

How could I want a child while our lives run not quite proper. Not only our internal  financial problems, plan of continuing studies, side business, and of course long distance relationship between me and my husband. And I think, the last one is the determinants of other wishes. So we absolutely hope we’ll get mutation decision of my husband’s job as soon as possible.

Wearing:
Beads black top . Chain shoes – Bellagio . recycling clutch . vintage ring
12 Comments leave one →
  1. 6 September 2011 12:07

    Gorgeous look, darling!
    Love the embellishments on that tunic!

    xoxox,
    CC

  2. 6 September 2011 14:06

    I. Love. This. Outfit. You look positively exquisite! What a gorgeous look! :)

  3. 6 September 2011 19:59

    Distance relationships are always complicated, even more complicated if you’re now married. I hope you guys can work everything out! You look amazing, by the way!


    Camila Faria

  4. 6 September 2011 22:02

    Hope you guys find some way to end the long distance thing, that must be tough!

    Btw, cute outfit!

  5. 7 September 2011 00:27

    Love the top as dress and hope life gets better for you!

  6. 7 September 2011 13:16

    You look amazing hun! Hope things get better for you xx

  7. 7 September 2011 13:52

    every relationship have ups and downs, unfortunately the downs sometimes last a long time but if you love eachother you can work your way out. I guess communication is the most important. I can imagine long distance is hard darling.

    You look amazing though and I bet husband agrees.

    x

  8. 7 September 2011 15:09

    love the details on the shoulders !

    http://WWW.GLISTERSANDBLISTERS.COM

  9. 7 September 2011 21:51

    Hey girl!
    you look so great and this dress really rocks!
    full os style and attitude!

    all my love for you, always

  10. 9 September 2011 13:17

    You look fantastic! Interesting reading your thoughts on married life… guess I’ll be going through the same, soon enough.

  11. 9 September 2011 19:59

    You look so pretty! That black dress looks amazing on you.

  12. 10 September 2011 15:41

    You look lovely, my dear! :)

    And I hope that you won’t be disheartened. It’s never easy, life. Even if you’re married or not, life is never a bed of roses. But all you need to do is to persevere. :) And I’m sure you’ll pull through! Of course when going through a hard time, you feel like that’s the end of it and you just can’t do anymore. But trust me, just hang on long enough and remember why you said yes. That would bring you through. :)

    I pray things look up for you soon! Take care and have a lovely weekend. xx

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