Say Hi To 2012
What we get at this present is such a consequence of our deed in the past. I absolutely agree with that. If we do wrong we will get the bad thing, and if we do right we will get the good one.
What has happened in one last year, it may because of our effort in one year before. and every single thing that happen on last year it may become an evaluation of ourselves. What we have done and what we have got. Everything can be the basic for resolution one year ahead. Yes, in this 2012.
2012. A new life begins. Within one year ahead there will be so many stories of our life that we don’t imagine before. And no matter what happen, we have to be ready to face all the possibilities. Something that we can do are prepare, do the best, and pray.
In this year we will face a variety things. Especially me, the biggest day must be a baby born in May (the same birth month with me and my husband. So we will celebrate our birthday in the same month). We expect a normal and gental birth, that what we dedicate for our baby.
Maxi dress is one of the best choices for this pregnant periode. It is simple, comfy, and look stylish.
Wearing: thrifted pattern maxi dress, blank tank, dark orange cardigan – Hardware.
Hey, look at my stomach! Haha, it so cute. I’m so admire the baby born on this May. Hopefully everything gonna be ok. 
December
December,
Everybody loves December. It represents so many happy things like Christmas, family, warmth, party, snow, New Year eve etc. December is always fascinating. And for me, although I don’t celebrate Christmas, I love December as well. There are so many atmosphere that couldn’t be explained when we enter December, the end of the year. I feel the same. Semarang – a place where I live, is suddenly being cold (everybody know that Semarang is so sunny). Of course not because of snow, there is only dry and rain season in Indonesia. Yea, Semarang is rain everyday. But I like it, I can feel what everybody does. At least the weather is similar. I feel cold, I also can watch so many interested movies, there is also family gathering, eat the delicious foods, and enjoy my 4th month of pregnancy.
And when December ends, another journey begins. So don’t forget to prepare all the things to welcome a new year where another adventure begins.
Hope you have a great moment on December too.
Merry Christmas & Happy New Year everyone… <3
Gentle thing
Although the ‘it’ day will be held few months later, but at the present there are two words in my brain called gental birth. For people who have been pregnant and given birth probably was not familiar. But for others who had not, it raises a question mark.
Gentle birth is softly natural birth to welcome baby born into the world. The companion should calmly and gently help with a soft voice so that when the baby is born the atmosphere around is calm, quiet and peaceful. It is intended that the mother retains in depth relax condition (meditative) during execution.
The important point related to Gental Birth:
- The mom-to-be need to meditate or relax since the early of pregnancy
- We have to often communicate with fetal
- Reduce medical intervention in childbirth, such as no strangers inside the room, a very bright spotlight, and the chattering of medical tools that is so creepy, makes us not relax.
- Delayed cord clamping
- And early initiation of breastfeeding.
While the advantages of doing this technique are reducing the pain of childbirth, the babies born become more calm which is also a positive effect on child development and psychological.
Gentle birth is usually done with home water birth. It will be helped by the husband or family, the doctor is only as backing. The main actors are only wife and husband their selves. Gentle birth can be done only in condition the fetus is in normal position (not harmful), etc.
Well, all of us would be seduced if there better way of birthing that is reduce a pain. If there is a more natural and less painful, why do not I try. Hopefully I can achieve this desire.
These are the photos that still in my laptop, i’m so sorry not to take a newest photos.
Miracle
Too much things happen in my absence on blogsphere. Every little thing give a significant influence in my life. Start from being Lo or liaison officer in ASEAN meeting where I accompany Senior Minister and Vice Chairman, Council for the Development of Cambodia, then take a part of education and pre-job training, and a piece of little dream that can be true: yes, I am pregnant!
Those things direct and indirectly increase my self-confident, I also realize that I have to improve my English, and also one thing, we need empathy in friendship. That what i get.
About my pregnancy I believe this is a miracle for me. How come one of million sperm cell can fertilize an ovum where it can only live for 24 hours per months. I also did not sure when was my fertile period and we did not plan to have a sex in that period. Yes, that is miracle. God have a great plan for me. In the right time there is embryo in my uterus and in the same time, my husband moved to Semarang. It means there is no more long distance relationship. It was incredible, God really have a time to give me the best.
Every symptoms and pregnancy effect I do happily. Including nausea, morning sickness, the lost of appetite, and easy to get tired. Yeah these are phase.
In monthly fetus monitoring, I do feel amaze. From being blood clots, clumps of pulsing veins, organism along 5 cm, then 13 cm, and etc. I can’t help to see the progress of it in every month. One of our expectation is I get a healthy pregnancy with normal birth.
I’m so sorry I don’t have recent photos of me. Still, I adore these maternity looks.
All is thrifted
Semarang – it has been more than 5 years I lived here. But I have not explored yet in every tiny crack and alley in this sunny town. I passed the same routine every single day, from home to office, and so on. By this chance you can see that I am not kind of exploler and culinary lovers. There are so many tourist and exotic spot which I’ve never visited before and they’re possibly interesting to take a photo at.
And as everybody know about this town, Semarang is one city in Indonesia that has the heal level above the avarage. But in the same time, it’s easy to get flood. Here is the place where I define to stay and live because it’s located in the middle between my hometown and my husband’s, perhaps this is the only reason.
The + ness Of Semarang
Great culinary, So many great tour place, Located in strategic area, not too crowded and deserted.
The – ness
It is extremelly hot, flood easily, there is one area in the north that nearly death due to flood-prone location, lots of parking trouble, traffict jam, not a good choice for fashionista (due to the limited shopping centre).
Eventhough Semarang is not recommended townt to live in, i definitely love it and i have so many good expectation for this heat small town, Semarang.
Twigs
As a blogger I belong to non-productive one. The too long range of time between one post to another, with low quality of writing, and of course with non-branded-outfit which are so contrast with other fashion blogger.
I am here in the tiny standpoint in the huge space. Becoming a small part among so many fashion lovers. Little bit strange, but I persist to get my existence.
Perhaps my present is worthless among those stylish and shopaholic people. I often wonder about what their job is so they often shopped so many outfit which there are famous brands label hang on them, then posted it in short times. They even travel from one city to another, from one country to abroad. It is amazing (read: I am jealous).
While me.. I am only a civil servant with average payment. The similar thing between me and them are about our hobbies. Fashion and photography, and share them. I only wear about unused, thrifted, treasured, and homemade clothes. My benchmark is the cheaper is the better, lol. Furthermore, with a limited English vocabulary, I cant come up such a beautiful writing over other bloggers.
Like on this post I write what’s on mind with ordinary outfit photos, yet I like it. I wear simple maxi dress which i brought in some shop, and top which i brought in some other shop too. Haha, It will be gratuitous if I mention the brand is, you wont recognize it.
Maxi dress, I think it is more suitable for tall people. This item must be crossed from my to-wear-list, as though I love it. Still, I’m bravely wear it.
At that afternoon, I ask my friend to take outfit photos in some not-well-known-place in Semarang for Semarang people their selves. Such a tiny side in an arid shore, Marina beach. But somehow I like this outlook, especially a second before twilight, so we can spoil our sight with the magnificent sunset.
Hope you guys will get fabulous week.
